Thursday, April 30, 2009
too much thought
I've been thinking lately about judgement. I am definately guitly of judging other people like just how i look at them and notice everything about them and think about it (like im examining them as a grade or something), and just in my head come up with certain conclusions meanwhile i haven't even met this person! But it gets so complicated-Its basically imposible to avoid judging other people or just being judged yourself is what i have concluded. People are always going to think something of you whether its good or bad. You are going to have certain reasons for thinking things of others to. Its not like everytime you talk to your friend you start clean, but should you? Although if im going to talk to my friend who i feel is really judgemental like everytime i talk to her, does that mean i should start fresh everytime giving her another chance. No way! thats just being ignorant. Or is it...ughh told you this is confusing. Then you could always be that person that "doesn't care what people think"....but you don't what to go tooo far with this, keep in mind we are pretending you are normal...well at least most of the time. Anyways-what do you think?
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oh my goodness, i have that feeling when i see someone and in the back of my mind i always just picture one of their faults. it's really bad, and i need to work on judging people too. but from other people's perspective on me, i do have that feeling of not worrying what they think. this doesn't have to be a negative thing, in my view it's positive. i just like to go with the flow and not be pressured to do anything i wouldn't normally do. i'm very opinionated, so i feel like i don't need to worry what they think because i won't be willing to change my opinion on whatever it is anyways. so that's my comment..longest one ever!
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